• Mental Health

    What factors should you consider before getting married?

    Ta-da! A new day and a new post from me. I am here to check on how you are doing. Recently, in Quora, someone asked me to answer this question. Legally bound to someone or not, you must know that for any relationship to work, efforts are a must. You cannot stop loving someone, or worse, expressing your love to them after they become yours. Love is a conscious choice made by an individual every single day. Probably that is why people ask us to resolve fights before going to bed. With bitterness, you can’t choose to love the person…

  • Parentsphere

    Dreams are a luxury to SAHMs

    Ta-da! How are you all today? I know this quarantine might drive you all crazy, especially those mothers who stay at home all day. I knew it because it drives me insane a little every day. Dreams are a luxury to people who have a full-time career, especially when the job is to take care of the house. My mom aspired to be a singer, and honestly, she has a great voice. When she couldn’t achieve it, like most of the parents, she wished one of her daughters to become a musician. Neither me nor my sister pictured us as…

  • Books - Feminism

    The Handmaid’s Tale: A Powerful Voice Against Repression.

    Ta-da! Welcome to another post on my blog. Hope you are having a good day so far. Before we discuss a book on fun-reading Friday, allow me to share a glimpse of an incredible poem that I read a few days ago on the Internet. The woman in the spiked devicethat locks around the waistand betweenthe legs, with holes in it like a tea straineris ExhibitA. The woman in black with a net windowto see through and afour-inchwooden peg jammed upbetween her legs so she can’t berapedis Exhibit B. Exhibit C is the young girldragged into thebush by midwivesand made…

  • Parentsphere

    Prenatal depression is relatively unknown compared to postpartum depression

    Ta-da! If you are feeling blues because of mundane activities all through the day after delivery, remember that this is just a phase. It shall pass, and you are not walking alone. While we hear a lot about postpartum depression these days, we still have a long way to go to understand antenatal or prenatal depression. Prenatal depression is a depression that a mother experiences during her pregnancy. Though the mood swings are typical due to pregnancy hormones, a few mothers might encounter it on a larger scale. Pregnancy is a smooth and joyful experience for some mothers, while some…

  • Parentsphere

    Is it okay to not have a nesting phase during pregnancy?

    Ta-da! I am here today with another interesting topic called nesting. If you are in mid terms of your pregnancy, you will know what I am talking about. The fact that I only googled about it, and never felt it during the pregnancy surprises me even now. I had full-time pregnancy (delivered my daughter on due date) yet did not have a nesting phase anytime during the pregnancy. Nesting, in clinical terms, is defined as a period during the second or third trimesters of the pregnancy where a mother feels a massive energy spurt. When I talked to my friends…

  • Feminism

    COVID, WOMEN, GENDER EQUALITY: THE GOOD, BAD AND THE UGLY.

    Ta-da! I am here with another post today. Gender equality, a global issue, threatens the development of women even in the 21st century. Some economists say that the fights of women for gender problems in society are withering away due to the pandemic. Are we matured enough to confront the elephant in the room? Before we jump into the pay gap reporting statistics by various websites for analysis, let’s take time to appreciate the pleasant thing. The unpaid care work performed by women all these years finally possessed the limelight and was noticed for how difficult and valuable it is,…

  • Parentsphere

    Do you have new-mom friends in your friends list?

    Ta-da! Here, I am with another tip about postpartum recovery. Though, this one is for the friends of the new-mom. It takes a village to raise a child, after all, doesn’t it? The journey of motherhood is overwhelming. It is quite natural to feel down and tired most of the time during pregnancy and after childbirth. I felt left out after getting pregnant. The closest of my friends stopped texting or calling me to ask how I was doing. With so many things happening, I hardly noticed the change and didn’t bother to call them back. After the delivery, I…

  • Parentsphere

    Do you celebrate your postpartum body as much as you loved your pregnancy bumps?

    Ta-da! Hoping you are doing well, despite the chaos the motherhood gifted you… Four years after taking that pregnancy test with the home pregnancy kit, I still reminisce about the double line, which gave me the ultimate happiness of my life. I was the happiest and blessed person in the entire world. Ten months from then, I know I would be holding a baby who I will love no matter what. But, no one prepared me for the journey of motherhood. When I initially hesitated to become a mother saying that I was not sure if I have the maturity…